I was asked recently what I expected in a woman and partner. It sent me on a thought provoking mission to gain clarity, which is always good. This is what I came up with so far. And these are what a woman and partner can expect from me.
A person;
- Who understands that we are not human beings on a spiritual journey, instead, spiritual beings on a human journey,
- Who knows that commitment means trust and loyalty to protect another person’s back and feelings,
- Who does not accept me as I am but encourages me to become everything I can and want to be, because they know me that well.
- Who has experienced enough personal growth to know that change is the only evidence of life,
- Who has enough positive self-esteem and confidence to be content in themselves.
- Who wants sensitivity in a man,
- Who knows that fear is false expectations appearing real,
- Who wants to be 18 until they die, try anything twice, stay foolish and look for the positive in everything, because their glass is more than half-full and they are looking to fill it to overflow.
- Who understands that all we have is now, this moment in time, to enjoy and make a difference in this lifetime.
- Who wants to leave the woodpile a little higher than the way they found it,
- Who knows that their job is not to change another person, but to hold up a mirror for another to see themselves,
- Who wants good communication,
- Who agrees that partners uplift each other in private and in public
- Who cherishes their mind and body to keep both as healthy as possible,
- Who understands that self reflection takes times of solitude and contemplation,
- Who can spend time with themselves without fears of being alone,
- Who understands that soul mates are truly souls that connect at a deeper level of unspoken consciousness such that when they have not seen each other in years, they can still finish each other’s sentences and start up where they left off as if no time had passed,
- Who understands that true love, mature love, comes from the soul and cannot be overridden by circumstances of daily existence,
- Who loves an eternal romantic,
- Who cherishes that love is a safe place and all we really have to provide is hope.