{"id":140,"date":"2013-03-15T17:34:39","date_gmt":"2013-03-15T17:34:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/jameswmfrank.commemoratemylife.me\/?p=140"},"modified":"2019-01-31T22:23:23","modified_gmt":"2019-01-31T22:23:23","slug":"times-achangin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jameswmfrank.commemoratemylife.me\/?p=140","title":{"rendered":"And The Times, They Are A&#8217;Changin&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>After weeks of trying to get a handle on reaching the senior level, not without many hours of soul searching, I have concluded that I feel no older than forty. \u00a0In many ways, I feel even younger.<\/p>\n<p>On my fortieth birthday, I was in Seoul, Korea on a buying trip for Lambda Crystal. \u00a0Molly had organized the staff to sign a birthday greeting piece of paper and faxed it to me.<\/p>\n<p>That night, the owner of a gold chain manufacturing company insisted on taking me out to dinner for my birthday. \u00a0It went something like this.<\/p>\n<p>Mr. Park would like to buy you a drink for your birthday. \u00a0Because he does not speak English very well, I will be his interpreter.<\/p>\n<p>As we arrived at the picturesque Korean restaurant with private, floor-seated, dining rooms, I was more than a little surprised when the waiter placed a 40-ounce bottle of Chivas Regal 18-year-old scotch on the table with one glass. \u00a0Now the tradition is that the host pours the guest a drink, and then the guest pours the host a drink. \u00a0As Mr. Park was enjoying his custom, I was chagrined by the lack of a shot glass for him. \u00a0As I picked up the bottle, the interpreter, shook his head and said, oh no, Mr. Frank, his drink is being delivered, that bottle is for you alone!<\/p>\n<p>Well, needless to say, the night became much more animated as both of us attempted each other&#8217;s language, which kept the interpreter in hysterics, and my host and I were\u00a0having the best time of our lives.<\/p>\n<p>The point is that a large part of me is still wanting those adventures, not knowing how it will turn out, but just loving the journey. \u00a0I add this video as a reminder of the everyday stuff that we let harm our being.<\/p>\n<p>It is always now!<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Sam Harris - It Is Always Now\" width=\"525\" height=\"295\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/T3JzcCviNDk?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>After weeks of trying to get a handle on reaching the senior level, not without many hours of soul searching, I have concluded that I feel no older than forty. \u00a0In many ways, I feel even younger. On my fortieth birthday, I was in Seoul, Korea on a buying trip for Lambda Crystal. \u00a0Molly had &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/jameswmfrank.commemoratemylife.me\/?p=140\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;And The Times, They Are A&#8217;Changin&#8217;&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-140","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-on-maturing"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/jameswmfrank.commemoratemylife.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/140","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/jameswmfrank.commemoratemylife.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/jameswmfrank.commemoratemylife.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jameswmfrank.commemoratemylife.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jameswmfrank.commemoratemylife.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=140"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/jameswmfrank.commemoratemylife.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/140\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5915,"href":"https:\/\/jameswmfrank.commemoratemylife.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/140\/revisions\/5915"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/jameswmfrank.commemoratemylife.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=140"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jameswmfrank.commemoratemylife.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=140"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jameswmfrank.commemoratemylife.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=140"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}